You can tell...

When its the Holidays around our house.. Because its a disaster zone.. My floors haven't been swept/mopped in a long time.. When's the last time I Vaccumed? No Clue. My carpets really really need to be shampooed. Its all I can do on the weekends to get laundry done and dishes cleaned. My poor cats room looks like a tornado went thru is because of lack of vaccuming! Ugh.. This is the first weekend we have been home for more than 3 hrs. Yeah.. Crazy.

I just have a little shopping for the hubby left. Then I'm done. All of our decorations actually went up in a timely manner this year :) Happy about that! I had only a little I wanted to write about in this blog.. but since I finally have time.. that list has grown to alot. Not sure where to start...

Well It feels as if I will be the last woman on earth (at this point) to ever have a kid or be a mom. First off.. I suppose.. (Sorry this is going to be like super out of whack)

I can't remember if i've mentioned the 2 young 20somethings at work (20, and 21) That are preggo.. The 20yr old.. didn't think you could get preggo on Birth control, and the other 21yr old.. already has 2 young boys.. and got preggo with her THIRD just So she could possibly get a girl!?!? WTF is wrong with people. I Swear.. SO that was a blow. THEN my new co-worker.. Infertility always seems to make its way into a conversation when i'm involved. She she knows.

While working together cleaning up toys. I said I'm so ready for kids so I can play games with them and all the fun stuff.. She then says yeah me too i've always wanted to be a young mother blah blah. Then she goes to say her period is all out of whack.. I wanted to Die right there.

The Monday before all that.. we were car shopping with my sister in law.. and mother in law.. Holy Hell I will never do that again. Anyways.. after a long afternoon with no sucess.. We stopped at the mall so I could return a bra... I really didn't want to.. But they didn't have it to reorder in my size.. *sigh* so She returned it and started looking at Bras to replace that one.. My mother in law makes the comment 'Will this one make a baby' KNOWING flat out our issues.. I'd had it.. I walked out of the store balling my eyes out.. Needless to say I still have the Bra. After SHE was upset she explained to us that I need to be happy for other people or they won't be happy for us, That we should stop after one kid.. that our marriage is going to fall apart and that we need to stop thinking baby baby baby.. So um.. Yeah. Its bee a rough month infertility wise.. It just keeps piling on.

So fast forward to today.. I finally got to see Gideon after Lord knows how long.. I missed that little guy :) His fave word is NO and Mommy *lol* He is in love with Doc, his kittes and puppy :) Adorable little guy! So.. then Jeff came over to catch up.. He asks me to sit down.. I'm all O.K.. why? So I sit down and he pulls a fucking u/s photo out of his pocket.. All I could say was Sriously!? GET THIS.. They have been dating 10 wks.. she's 9 wks preggo.. Yeah.. Nice. I swear.. Something is out to get me... And its winning. Infertility 4 Nicki 0

He said that he had a very heavy heart with telling us because of what we have been thru. OH ALSO They were using protection. !$@#$^. Him saying that didn't make it any better. It still was a swift kick in the crotch.

Ugh.. I'm going to sit miserably on my couch because.. I'm sick.. for the first time in forever. Blow my nose 500 times and then go to bed.. and Bake in the morning..For the weathermans sake.. there better be snow on the ground in the morning.. I need some happiness! Yeahh so there has been my life in a nutshell right now. Anything else? I think if my sil or brother was having a baby next that might be the icing on the cake.. :(

~Nicki